Take a deep breath, Inhale. Exhale. Inhale. Exhale.
Are You Ready?
I would appreciate if you close your eyes right now, clear your mind and think of nothing but
The person you like or Love.
Done?
*Smile*
Let's pretend that the person you're thinking of ask you out on a date, for this post sake, imagine it's your first date with him or her.
Answer This!
"What's your definition of the Perfect First Date"
Take Your Time (:
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I'm guessing your reaction would be something like
- Something simple. As long as I'm with someone who wants to spend time with me and likes me for who I am. A perfect date would be with someone who accepts me for who I really am.
- Somewhere quiet, away from the beady eyes of people, where we can be ourselves. i would want him/her to hold me in his/her arms, and then the kiss..
- Walking for the whole night and talking...
- Sitting at the beach at night
- Good food. Good conversation. Good movie
- A quiet night, with some light walking and talking, under medium-low lighting from a street or a bright moon, and snuggling close to him/her
- Lying on the beach , enjoying the view of the sky with millions of stars
- .. I have no idea.
Don't read TOO FAST!
Take Your Time, let your imagination run wild (:
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Just by thinking about this stuff can put a big smile on your face doesn't it?
Love is that Powerful no? :D
So what am i going to write about is relating to the "Perfect Date" in my point of view! enjoy. x :)
EVENT ONE!
FAIRY TALE!
The First thing that would be amazing to experience with your date would surely be like from one of the scene in the Disney's Movie, Tangled! Have you guys watched it yet? it's an awesome movie :)
..Just imagine that you and your date are on a boat in the middle of a lake with the most outstanding scenery and the environment is exquisitely calm. Just when you're about to start a conversation, suddenly there's thousand of lanterns that are being released to the night calm sky, she suddenly push you back and then she lay down on your chest while looking up to the heaven. You can't move even a bit cause you don't want to interrupt her so you just sit still while playing with her hair gently. Smelling her scent as the wind blow, then kissing her forehead.
The Scenery.. The Moments.. Shared together in a tiny boat. With every lanterns.. With every heart-beats.. she'll remember.
EVENT TWO
NORMAL
The First step,
Before coming to her house, the first romantic thing that i could think of is buying her a flower and a small card that you could write something on it! Greet her with a thousand smiles and a simple gesture of sincere compliments to your date such as " Even tho you dress simple tonight, i'm still quite stunned by you beauty and the way your hair fall is.. *smile* " OR just smile and stare at her eyes, keep smiling and hold her hand gently and give her the flower! (:
Place to Eat,
a simple restaurant.
This is where both of them will get the opportunity to share everything about their self. The short stories & the little jokes is quite vital on the process of becoming more closer and more comfortable with each other. Trust will be given and hearts will be open! Take notice all the little things that she do! :)
Next Step,
a trip to the beach.
a walk along the beach will be quite amazing! You don't have to set up something up because Mother Nature has got your back. The way the stars shine & the way the moon glow will eventually set the perfect moment for the "First Kiss" to happen or if she's not ready.. the scenery will be worth to be remember!
Next?
well.. It's up to the boys' capabilities, such as if he can sing and play the guitar, or if that boy has the talent in photography or if he and she are into star gazing..
To further explain this.. Let’s take a look with the boy that has this interest in star gazing yeah? well he can bring his telescope to the beach or even make one from scratch, just imagine that there's a camp fire burning up with a telescope just far beside it, he can guide the girl to see the beauty star gazing can offer while both are being covered with blankets! That’s sweet no? ..Afterward they can both sit around the fire, talking, cuddling.. :)
Ending,
It's basically up to you on how to end the perfect date! As for me.. Remember the small card? i would write something up like the little things that she do.. then i would give it to her following up with a gentle kiss.. OR a kiss on the forehead if she isn't ready OR simply a long warm hug! (:
EVENT THREE
To achieve that Perfect Date... You don't have to travel far or even eat at a restaurant to be honest, the most important thing about all this that i noticed is that the moments and time you're spending time with her together.. doesn't even mean a thing even if you treat the girl to a vending machine.. it's the sincerity of Love and attention you're giving to her that's important (: All the external factors are just helping you and your girl to remember the moment but not the feeling you'll develop toward each other no? correct me if i'm wrong.. :)
I do hope you enjoy reading this, The Little things do count! remember that! x
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